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The Lord Your Healer: 

Discover Him and Find His Healing Touch by Paul J. Bucknell

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Discover Him and Find His Healing Touch

First step of discipleship
revive devotions
Advanced Discipleship

The Bible Teaching Commentary on Genesis: The Book of Foundations

Commentaries that specialize on training the teacher!

Overcoming Anxiety: Finding Peace, Discovering God


Relational Discipleship: Cross Training teaching series

Relational Discipleship: Cross Training

Paul J. Bucknell

Shepherd-Lamb: Introduction
Finding Way Home | Provided | Trust | Extend | Projects

Growing in our relationships
with God and people!

Shepherd and Lamb

Reflecting God's love in our lives

Shepherd - lamb

Extend God’s Love

Unconditionally love others.

Just as Christ our shepherd laid down His life for us, we ought to do whatever is necessary to care for the needs of those God brings into our lives. This is true for a relative, friend, brother, colleague, stranger or neighbor.

1) God's Command For Us to Love Others

Loving others is a command from God. As children of God, we are enabled to love others because God’s love fills our hearts.

God has poured out His love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us (Romans 5:5).

Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God (1 John 4:7).

Notice how God commands us to love others as we love ourselves. “For the whole Law is fulfilled in one word, in the statement, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Galatians 5:14).

Love is the opposite to self-centered living. We need to retrain ourselves to consider the needs of others above ourselves and to be attentive to those needs.

2) Seeking Other Sheep

Jesus said, “I have other sheep, which are not of this fold; I must bring them also” (John 10:16). Jesus was speaking mostly of non-Jews here.

How does Jesus bring those sheep into the fold? Give one or two examples of someone doing this.

3) The Need to Love Others in Truth and in Action

If anyone has material possession and sees his brother in need but has no pity on him, how can the love of God be in him? Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth. (1 John 3 17-18)

It is very easy for us to say to someone that we love and care for them. But how often do we really pour out our love for them in action?

Jesus demonstrated His love for us in action by dying on the cross to save us from eternal death. How can we love others in action today? We can spend time with them, pray for/with them, and give them a helping hand when they are in need.

As God's children, we must love others in action and in truth, so that God can be glorified through our testimony.


1) Identify any ‘sheep’ that you are responsible to show God’s love to. This might include children, a widow, spouse or some friend.

2) Do you think of your responsibility to provide spiritual care to others? A pastor of course must ‘pastor’ God’s people, but God has also given all of His disciples the responsibility to be part of the means He shows spiritual care to others (Matthew 28:18). Name one or two ways that you spiritually care for others.

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Relational  Discipleship: Cross Training by Paul J. Bucknell

A strategic basic discipleship series designed to help Christians grow not only in their relationship with God but also with other people. BFF Discipleship Traning CDEach section uses a familiar relationship to bring out basic but very practical Biblical teaching.

We highly recommend getting the BFF Discipleship #1 Digital Library which not only includes the Relationship Discipleship book, but slides, summaries, user guide, teacher's reference, etc. This D#1 Library also contains all our other Christian training resources for new believers.

Grow in love for God and for others

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