|A broken life
Those ensnared in lusts know the meaning and implications of brokenness. Life is a series of broken relationships.
Momentary feelings are quickly submerged in the darkness of shame and self-hatred.
Friendships are superficial; they are not meant to last. People use others and others use them. It is business not true friendship. Shallowness and superficiality describe their life for it was not meant to continue. They have no real joy or love that should continue. The serving of self is not fit to endure.
Modern lives are broken into so many pieces that no one ever knew or hoped that they could be put together. They don't even know there is such a thing as a whole.
Love, joy and friendship are meant to last forever. They were made to endure. Deep relationships fulfill the need of belonging and idenity.
When discovering a fulfilling relationship, one needs not keep looking for new relationships. They are content where they are. They are happy spending more time developing even deeper relationship.
Mutual acceptance and the seeking to care for other people initiate a series of friendships complementing the intimate relationship one already has.