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The Lord Your Healer: 

Discover Him and Find His Healing Touch by Paul J. Bucknell

Newest! The Lord Your Healer

Discover Him and Find His Healing Touch

First step of discipleship
revive devotions
Advanced Discipleship

The Bible Teaching Commentary on Genesis: The Book of Foundations

Commentaries that specialize on training the teacher!

Overcoming Anxiety: Finding Peace, Discovering God


Relational Discipleship: Cross Training teaching series

Relational Discipleship: Cross Training

Paul J. Bucknell

Cornerstone-Stones: Introduction
Built to Last | Design | Focus | Teamwork | Projects

Growing in our relationships
with God and people!

Cornerstone Stones

God's design for me

Cornerstone Stones

Teamwork & Love

Christians are living stones.

1) Our Design

The Christian will never be able to get around having Christian ‘neighbors.’ God designed His building (temple) to be comprised of Christians.

You also, as living stones, are being built up as a spiritual house for a holy priesthood, to offer up spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ  (1 Peter 2:5).

Every Christian is a __________ stone. These stones are spiritually dynamic.  They change their shape and grow as needed!

2) Our Relationships

This is what we find in daily life. As Christians, we need to continually make adjustments to our expectations and deepen our understanding of one another. We need to be careful not to get upset when a fellow Christian disagrees with us or does things differently. Circle the phrase below that Jesus uses twice.

A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another (John 13:34).

3) Our Commitment

Love is the oil that keeps Christians caring for each other. God’s love should deeply influence our own lives through two means:

(1) Belief that other Christians are important and valuable. We find this true in the way that God has specially fitted them to be part of God’s temple. They are also ‘living’ stones just like us. A stone wall with missing stones crumbles rather quickly.

(2) We are commended by Christ to “love one another.” No matter what happens, whether we wrongly suffer loss or shame, we are still to love one another. Our commitment is shaped by God’s love for us.

One other principle is important. Because we are not perfect, we are to master reconciliation. We need to learn how to straighten out a relationship that has deteriorated.


I once shared a hotel room with a brother that was friendly enough, but we differed on how to carry out ministry. I could have pretended that everything was fine but that would have been deceitful. Instead I chose to love him. I purposely thought about him as a special member of God’s body. I couldn’t do without him. After prayerfully allowing these truths to touch my heart, I could really begin to care for his needs. The Lord led me to graciously share a few of my concerns. Other concerns I trusted into the Lord’s hands.


Think of one Christian you have difficulty with. Because he is also a living stone, begin to think of him (or her) as very important. Because of his importance, do everything you can to encourage and help him. Even go the extra step and praise God for that Christian. Next ->

Relational  Discipleship: Cross Training by Paul J. Bucknell

A strategic basic discipleship series designed to help Christians grow not only in their relationship with God but also with other people. BFF Discipleship Traning CDEach section uses a familiar relationship to bring out basic but very practical Biblical teaching.

We highly recommend getting the BFF Discipleship #1 Digital Library which not only includes the Relationship Discipleship book, but slides, summaries, user guide, teacher's reference, etc. This D#1 Library also contains all our other Christian training resources for new believers.

Grow in love for God and for others

These Christian media-enriched resources can also be purchased in the BFF Resource Center.

BFF Discipleship Traning CD

Scriptures typically quoted from the New American Standard Bible unless noted: (C) Copyright The Lockman Foundation 1988

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