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The Lord Your Healer: 

Discover Him and Find His Healing Touch by Paul J. Bucknell

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Discover Him and Find His Healing Touch

First step of discipleship
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The Bible Teaching Commentary on Genesis: The Book of Foundations

Commentaries that specialize on training the teacher!

Overcoming Anxiety: Finding Peace, Discovering God


Relational Discipleship: Cross Training teaching series

Relational Discipleship: Cross Training

Paul J. Bucknell

Master - Servant: Introduction | Follow the Leader |
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Master and Servant

Devotedly serving God and others

Available to serve God

Making ourselves totally available to serve.

When we assert our personal rights, we have clashes with other people. The solution for this kind of conflict comes by following Jesus’ own example of humble service. He deliberately gave up His own rights so He could serve.

1) Christ’s Example of service

Perhaps no passage so clearly identifies Christ’s willingness to make Himself totally available to God and others than Philippians 2:5-8.

Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus, who, although He existed in the form of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, and being made in the likeness of men. And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.

Philippians 2 Form of God Jesus Christ

Underline the kind of attitude that Christians are commanded to have in the above verses. Notice the three different stages of humbling that Jesus experienced so that He could effectively get God’s work done. Jesus, who chose to serve, is our example.

2) God’s Choice of Service

Jesus didn’t come to do what He Himself wanted but to do His Father’s will. We often try to get out of hard situations. We think we deserve better.

For I have come down from heaven, not to do My own will, but the will of Him who sent Me (John 6:38).

3) God’s Means of Training His Servants

In order to make significant changes in our lifestyle, we first need to make fundamental attitude changes. Once we desire to serve someone, then we do not mind going out of our way to help him. The apostle in the above verses commands us to have the same approach to life as Jesus did.

4) God’s Testing of His Servants

There is no doubt that some of our greatest temptations will be to give up when the going gets tough. Jesus faced extreme temptation at Gethsemane. Note how much Jesus’ struggled. And yet, He persevered doing right!

Father, if Thou art willing, remove this cup from Me; yet not my will, but Thine to be done (Luke 22: 42).

Reflection: We were excited over our free tickets to the symphony. We later discovered that a special church service was scheduled for that night. I know my wife would be disappointed if we didn’t go, but I knew what God wanted me to attend. I returned the tickets and trusted God for His special peace. We could serve together praying for others and trusted God to care for our needs.

Application: State the last time you were tested. How did you respond? Make a short prayer stating your willingness to always follow God’s orders.


Relational  Discipleship: Cross Training by Paul J. Bucknell

A strategic basic discipleship series designed to help Christians grow not only in their relationship with God but also with other people. BFF Discipleship Traning CDEach section uses a familiar relationship to bring out basic but very practical Biblical teaching.

We highly recommend getting the BFF Discipleship #1 Digital Library which not only includes the Relationship Discipleship book, but slides, summaries, user guide, teacher's reference, etc. This D#1 Library also contains all our other Christian training resources for new believers.

Grow in love for God and for others

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Scriptures typically quoted from the New American Standard Bible unless noted: (C) Copyright The Lockman Foundation 1988

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