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A Basic Discipleship Course · Free Certificate Course

Relational Discipleship: Cross Training

Instructor: Pastor Paul J. Bucknell

Grow in love for God and others through twelve biblical relationship pictures that show how Christ forms trust, obedience, devotion, service, mercy, faithfulness, cooperation, and fruitfulness in everyday life.

“You shall love the Lord your God ... You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” — Matthew 22:37–40
12 lessons12 videos12 handouts12 quizzesCertificate track

Course Goals at a Glance

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Cross Training joins two great biblical concerns—loving God wholeheartedly and loving people rightly. Each lesson brings together what a relationship picture teaches about God and how that same truth reshapes our earthly relationships.

Know God Better

Understand how the Father, Shepherd, Teacher, King, Priest, Redeemer, and Vine reveal Christ’s ways.

Love People Biblically

Learn how those same truths reshape fathering, serving, praying, showing mercy, marriage, teamwork, and care for others.

Grow in Christlike Character

Strengthen obedience, trust, purity, compassion, faithfulness, cooperation, and fruitfulness.

Live on Mission

Move from private belief to practical discipleship, helping others know Christ and grow in Him.

Glance at Goals (Summary) 12 Relationships at a Glance

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Required Introduction

Before Lesson 1, read Introduction: Why Relational Discipleship? It explains why Cross Training joins our relationship with God to our relationships with other people and establishes the purpose of the twelve relationship pictures.

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Certificate requirement: Mark the introduction reading complete from its course page.

Course Lessons

12 biblical relationship pictures

Lesson 1

The Father and the Son

Knowing and Resembling Our Father

Learn from Jesus the Son to trust, honor, obey, and depend on the Father, then reflect the Father’s love in relationships with others.

1 videoHandout7-question quiz
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Lesson 2

The Shepherd and the Lamb

Reflecting God’s Love

Receive the Good Shepherd’s care, provision, and protection, learn to trust Him in fear and uncertainty, and extend His care to others.

1 videoHandout7-question quiz
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Lesson 3

The Teacher and the Disciple

Learning Like Christ

Grow as a lifelong disciple who listens to Christ, tests other influences by His Word, applies what He teaches, and helps others follow Him.

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Lesson 4

The King and the Kingdom

Extending God’s Glory

Live as a loyal member of Christ’s kingdom, placing His will above personal preference and joining His mission through obedience, prayer, and witness.

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Lesson 5

The Bridegroom and the Bride

Love and Constant Service

Treasure Christ’s covenant love, remain devoted to Him, live in expectation of His return, and protect purity in thought and conduct.

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Lesson 6

The Judge and the Guilty

Living in a Just World

Face God’s perfect justice and our guilt, rejoice in the mercy offered through Christ, and learn to pass that mercy on to others.

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Lesson 7

The Priest and the People

Learning Compassionate Prayer

Understand Christ’s priestly work, depend on Him as mediator, and embrace the believer’s calling to pray, intercede, and care for others.

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Lesson 8

The Master and the Servant

Devotedly Serving God and Others

Follow Jesus the Servant Leader by making yourself available to God, obeying Christ readily, and serving others faithfully with what He has entrusted to you.

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Lesson 9

The Redeemer and the Chosen

We Belong to Him

Receive the security and purpose of being chosen and redeemed by God, then express His kindness even in difficult relationships and circumstances.

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Lesson 11

The Husband and the Wife

Faithful to My Commitment

Use marriage and Christ’s relationship with the church to understand headship, covenant commitment, faithfulness, respect, and enduring love.

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Lesson 12

The Vine and the Branches

Abiding in Christ

Depend on Christ as a branch depends on the vine, receive the Father’s pruning, remain close through obedience and prayer, and bear lasting fruit.

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Helpful Resources

Book and overview resources

Free course book: Enrolled students receive the PDF and EPUB links in their enrollment email or WhatsApp message. Keep that message or downloaded copy for the required lesson readings.

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Discipleship Process 12 Relationships at a Glance